A Friend Makes All the Difference

That is the basic concept for Compeer. They help link people with mental disabilities with volunteers who can provide support, guidance, and friendship. Compeer was started in Rochester back in 1973 at the Rochester Psychiatric Hospital with a friendly visitor, and has been such a success that it has spread to 30 states, Canada, and Australia. They serve children ages five and up, and adults.

Compeer is finding that the friendships are beneficial to both parties. Volunteers often welcome their ‘new’ friends into their families. Compeer is also seeing positive results in the youth program. They are seeing better behavior and better grades for those who have been matched.

It was surprising to me when I learned that one out of every four people with disabilities in Monroe County has a mental disability. Research indicates that mental illness that goes untreated costs Americans $113 billion every year. Overall, our United Way will invest $2.5 million into programs which help people with disabilities this year, including mental disabilities. Compeer plays a critical role.

The organization hosts several events throughout the year- holiday parties, a summer cookout, and different skill building classes like knitting, gardening, and art. Even the clients who are awaiting matches still attend these events. Those who waiting to be matched are set on a phone list, and receive a friendly call once a week to see how things are going.

In Rochester alone, they have 300-400 volunteers, but are in desperate need for more. If you, or someone you know is interested in becoming a friend - check out their web site to learn more.